These past two days I’ve learned that family can be your biggest critic. They can sometimes be your biggest down fall. Have you ever felt like no one believed in you or the things you want to pursue? I had that happen to me yesterday. It is not a great feeling at all especially coming from a close family member. It’s crazy how people can try to compare you to another person. There can only be one you and of them. No person is going to be the same as the next person. You can marry who you want for the reasons you want. You marry the person that you accept. You don’t try to compare them to someone else as if the other person is better. You marry that person because you accept them as they are, flaws and all. Some may not like it but it is not up to them. The lesson I learned this weekend is that you should do what makes YOU happy. People are still going to talk about you whether you’re doing good or bad, happy or sad. As long as you’re happy then that’s the only thing that matters. Because at the end of the day you’re able to make your own decisions and you’re the one who holds the power to make yourself happy. So do you and forget about what others say. Forget about all of the judgements that are being thrown your way and live life!